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I don’t think anything good can come from him getting beaten up by these boys, so I would suggest that he doesn’t play basketball with them anymore. From what I’ve seen in relationships, it seems that undesirable behavior from a partner continues when the other party hasn’t received clear boundaries on what is (or isn’t) acceptable. Another option is to stop the sleepovers and not confront them at all, especially if you think they’re too set in their ways to change—but I don’t think that’s an effective long-term solution. Eventually they will want to know why the overnight visits have ended, and someone will have to break the news to them.
They had a mice issue with holes chewed in walls and droppings around the house, and now the issue is occurring again. My FIL insists on handling it himself without an exterminator. They leave doors open in warm weather, so flies and moths remain for months, including in the kitchen around the food they offer my son. They have a dog, so there’s fur everywhere, including in the food they prepare. Their home in general just really grosses me out, and I’m at the point of not wanting to leave my son there.
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HSGKC will provide all medical care, including vaccines, medication, and spay/neuter. Remember, as long as you approach them with love, albeit tough love, you can be at peace that you’ve done the right thing to protect your son. As to respect Client privacy and security, The Family Place distributes the gifts directly to the families. Deliver the gifts to our NEW Holiday Donation Center in large plastic bags.
If your son is anything like my daughter, the original lovie is the most valued one, and I ensured it rarely left the house, meaning New Bunny was the one that went to preschool with her. If New Bunny ever was lost or forgotten at school, my daughter was relieved to know that her favorite was waiting at home with her. Sure, she doesn’t have the bond that she has with Old Bunny, but it’s better than not having anything at school.
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Is there a tactful way to broach this with them or to cease sleepovers? They’re getting on in years so I want them to spend time together but not overnight anymore. The Adopt-A-Family Program connects families who need support during the holiday season with donors who give hope and joy to them by shopping for wish gifts and providing gift cards for their needs.
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It’s not like you’re preventing your in-laws from seeing him, it just needs to happen under different circumstances. Personally, there’s no date night worth subjecting either of my kids to that level of filth from family members or anyone else. In 2014, a generous donor provided the funds to enable Adopt-A-Family to purchase four parcels of land that became available adjacent to the agency’s Family Resource Center in Lake Worth. Recognizing this as a pivotal opportunity, we embarked on a mission-focused assessment to identify the most urgent needs in the community.
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If your son is as good as you say he is, I think you should put him on an organized basketball team where he plays with and against older players. In that case, he will be challenged in a safe environment that will surely make him a tougher and better player . Let me start by directing you to the ChildHelp hotline. They can help you recognize what is abuse, and how you can protect your children , which is your absolute first priority. I should qualify my response, too, by saying I despise spanking children as a parenting solution, and my response is biased because of my beliefs. So you should be unapologetic about ensuring your child doesn’t experience that as well.
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I have told my husband that this is not ok with me and that it can’t continue. I have asked him to talk to his therapist about it, which he is doing, but I’m not sure what else to do. He sees this as discipline and I see it as bordering on abuse. My in-laws are incredibly loving grandparents and have taken an active interest in our 6-year-old son’s life since he was born, and love seeing him. Around age 4, every 6-8 weeks, they do us the gracious favor of watching our son overnight in their home so we can have a rare date night. However, their home’s cleanliness has deteriorated in recent years.
It’s a good thing that your husband is seeking therapy for his behavior, but it seems like not a heck of a lot has changed. And let’s be real—how do you know for sure that he’s talking to his therapist about hitting the children? Are you going to take his word for it although everything still remains the same at home?
He shares a little less than half of the childcare with me and also helps out around the house. I’m concerned because he sometimes loses his temper with the children who are two and five. He has threatened to hit my 5-year-old and hit my 2-year-old lightly recently. He yells at them and picks them up violently to go to time out. As a kid my mom was emotionally abusive, and my parents spanked me. I had a number of mental health issues when I was younger, and I think having parents who respected and supported me would have prevented some of them.
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